OK this isnt about sex, but im putting this here anyway.

I am currently going thru a divorce.

My wife has stated that if i give her custody she will waive child support.

This is important because of where we live, I am not native to the area and I have no family other than my children in the area. I cannot move into my parents basement, I have no relatives here at all.

My wife makes a hefty salary approx 120% more than me. For a while now ive been a stay at home dad, this was done because my job is easy to restart, her career would take time to develope back to the point she is right now.

Where we live is incredibly expensive to live, at my rate of pay, I would have enough to survive, but not live.

When we get into the mediators office, she now claims she wants child support, and that she wants me to pay on a weekly basis.

We are trying to negotiate to a settlement that I will pay child support when I make (x) a year, and when I do it will go into a college fund for the children.

The problem I have is that this person is a liar, she is willing to lie, cheat, steal, as long as she gets what she wants.

I fully expect that even if i accept that bargain, she will have me in court asking for my money, it would only be a matter of time. After all, she has already lied in this process by saying she would waive child support, then when I agree to give her custody she now wants support.

I want to make it clear that this person does not need my money, she makes more than enough, like I said 120% more than I do, me giveing her anything would literally test my survival. its that expensive to live here. I think she just hates me for interupting her story.

Ive been told that if anyone has a case to get custody of the kids its me, but it will finacially break the both of us and take 3-4 years to fight out.

So faced with this what would ya do?

If ya need more info just ask.

Peace.
Marlboroman Reviewed by Marlboroman on . I need advice OK this isnt about sex, but im putting this here anyway. I am currently going thru a divorce. My wife has stated that if i give her custody she will waive child support. This is important because of where we live, I am not native to the area and I have no family other than my children in the area. I cannot move into my parents basement, I have no relatives here at all. My wife makes a hefty salary approx 120% more than me. For a while now ive been a stay at home dad, this was done Rating: 5