You may hate me, but she's your mom. Even if she's wrong, just do what you can to make her happy while you still can. You are practically a grown man, but to her you're her 16 year old kid. Take it this way. Look how big of a deal she's making about nothing, she's doing it for you (or so she belevies). She's trying to help you with a problem she thinks you have. Maybe you can help her with her problem of letting go. It's practically impossible to not fight with your mom when your that age, but hang in there. I'm sure she loves you and just wants whats best.