Had one of them talks about it with mother/grandfather

[benagain]

You may hate me, but she's your mom. Even if she's wrong, just do what you can to make her happy while you still can. You are practically a grown man, but to her you're her 16 year old kid. Take it this way. Look how big of a deal she's making about nothing, she's doing it for you (or so she belevies). She's trying to help you with a problem she thinks you have. Maybe you can help her with her problem of letting go. It's practically impossible to not fight with your mom when your that age, but hang in there. I'm sure she loves you and just wants whats best.

[Markay]

Oh yeah, I know that benagain. That's why I was trying to be honest with her. I dont like hiding stuff from her, or her worrying about me.

But Im just sick of her bullshit. I used to come home drunk when I was 15 and sometimes she wouldnt even care, depending how drunk I was. If I was puking and shit she'd be pissed, but if I was just giggley she wouldnt care that much at all.

So now, when sport and my life is going well, Im happy, healthy, I havent drank in like 6 months and dont plan to. She finds out Im smoking dope once or twice a week and it's a problem? She wont even tell me why it's a problem.

'Im the mother and I said so'.

That shit works with a toddler who cant think for himself, not a man.

[FeastonThisSHITT]

It is easier to pull that "I'm the mother" shit, but it runs dry as you age. You can't win here, she doesn't seem to be open to discussion at all because she doesn't want to have to think of a good reason for her rule.

You can either quit or let her know that you are intelligent and mature enough to make your decision on the matter and that financial pressure would be a form of bullying, even if it with good intentions.

[LIP]

She didnt like the taste? Everyone likes the taste. EVERYONE.

[cannabis campbell]

Lol

whats the peace and fucking thing in your name LIP and did you make your avatar yourself?

[benagain]

ok, I could see the over worrying about the pot, but i'm not sure about the alcohol. Maybe now that you've got your 'shit together' she's worried that something the isn't familliar with is gonna take it away. Who knows. Give it a few years and you won't have to worry about it. Just don't say anything you'll regret once you've moved on on your own :thumbsup:

I'm sure she'll come around eventually. Just keep on doing well.

[3rdEyeVision]

kind of off topic but owell, my mom told me she thinks weed should be legalized today :dance: , I wonder if she still remembers Im growing a plant?? :rasta:

[orangeman]

Meh that sucks, if there werent so many lies about cannabis problems like this wouldnt happen. I cant believe because of peoples lies about a fuckin herbal it breaks up families. This world is sad.

[Markay]

Fucks sake, I got a ride to training and come back to have my girlfriend ringing me to say my mam rang her and talked to her about it.
More than she did with me, no talking with me. Just her shouting

She's now also told my grandmother, who I would nearly say I hate at this stage.
She's a complete fool and Im pretty sure my whole family will know soon enough. She literally doesnt know much about anything, at all.
She also called me a junkie a minute ago, dispite me not smoking cigs, drinking or even drinking coffee.
Thankfully most of my aunts and uncles them rebelled from the terrible 'sheltered' parenting they recieved and probably know the truth about cannabis. In fact, my mother raised my aunts and uncles because my grandmother would beat her if she didnt.

Ahh, the old Irish ways eh? I cant wait to raise a family and actually treat my kids with a bit of respect. I will remember being treated like a leper.

[420purplehaze420]

your moms a bitch, like fuck, i wouldnt be able to stand it in your house, my dads side is irish and my moms is dutch (canada), and i smoke bowls around the clock in my room, i just told em i would rather smoke in my room where i dont have the option of getting hassled by the pigs, i passed all my classes and eventually they just accepted it, now im your age and share an apartment with 2 roommates in....life is good