Quote Originally Posted by nitemarehippiegirl
you are very right shorty, I keep thinking about all of that.
We have had some good talks these past couple of days- he knows we've got to fix this now and something has to change. and I am going to stay by his side for the time being and see if we can get past all of this-- I am such a good wife- sigh.
It's just seems like it's so uncommon, doesn't it? staying with one person and being committed to him/her? I am surrounded by people who cheat on their spouses, amd divorce is more common than not. Honestly, I don't want to be with anyone else and I don't want to be like that... but, I just want to have sex! Is that so wrong? errr.
So anyways thanks guys, for your support. .
I'm glad you had a talk!!! That was a very good step, and you are a good wife for hanging in there. And you're completely in the right to want to have sex. I don't know how I'd maintain my sanity if I didn't have that connection and release in my life right now.

I completely agree that monogamy is unnatural. I truly do. It's especially unnatural for men, whose whole evolved genetic programming instructs them to sow as many seeds as possible. But I think monogamy requires a lot from women, too. I truly think that if I ever ended up losing my husband or somehow divorcing down the road, I wouldn't marry again. I might live with someone (or maybe a series of attractive someones???), but I don't think I'd want to be legally contracted in marriage anymore. Too confining.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . tired of pleasing myself... At some point I just need to say this I guess, this is as good as time as any... It has been way too long for me... I am going nuts here. I love my husband and I would never leave him and I would never want to intentionally hurt him... But he is hurting me! I know its not on purpose but this is killing me.. It's the only thing I've been thinking about for days, and when I'm high just forget it. It's like every breath I take is fucking orgasmic. I can't deal with this it is pure and simple Rating: 5