Quote Originally Posted by nitemarehippiegirl
you are very right shorty, I keep thinking about all of that.
We have had some good talks these past couple of days- he knows we've got to fix this now and something has to change. and I am going to stay by his side for the time being and see if we can get past all of this-- I am such a good wife- sigh.
It's just seems like it's so uncommon, doesn't it? staying with one person and being committed to him/her? I am surrounded by people who cheat on their spouses, amd divorce is more common than not. Honestly, I don't want to be with anyone else and I don't want to be like that... but, I just want to have sex! Is that so wrong? errr.
So anyways thanks guys, for your support. .
I'm glad you had a talk!!! That was a very good step, and you are a good wife for hanging in there. And you're completely in the right to want to have sex. I don't know how I'd maintain my sanity if I didn't have that connection and release in my life right now.

I completely agree that monogamy is unnatural. I truly do. It's especially unnatural for men, whose whole evolved genetic programming instructs them to sow as many seeds as possible. But I think monogamy requires a lot from women, too. I truly think that if I ever ended up losing my husband or somehow divorcing down the road, I wouldn't marry again. I might live with someone (or maybe a series of attractive someones???), but I don't think I'd want to be legally contracted in marriage anymore. Too confining.