tired of pleasing myself...

[RainyDayWoman]

give him a blow job...... sheesh

[birdgirl73]

you are very right shorty, I keep thinking about all of that.
We have had some good talks these past couple of days- he knows we've got to fix this now and something has to change. and I am going to stay by his side for the time being and see if we can get past all of this-- I am such a good wife- sigh.
It's just seems like it's so uncommon, doesn't it? staying with one person and being committed to him/her? I am surrounded by people who cheat on their spouses, amd divorce is more common than not. Honestly, I don't want to be with anyone else and I don't want to be like that... but, I just want to have sex! Is that so wrong? errr.
So anyways thanks guys, for your support. .

I'm glad you had a talk!!! That was a very good step, and you are a good wife for hanging in there. And you're completely in the right to want to have sex. I don't know how I'd maintain my sanity if I didn't have that connection and release in my life right now.

I completely agree that monogamy is unnatural. I truly do. It's especially unnatural for men, whose whole evolved genetic programming instructs them to sow as many seeds as possible. But I think monogamy requires a lot from women, too. I truly think that if I ever ended up losing my husband or somehow divorcing down the road, I wouldn't marry again. I might live with someone (or maybe a series of attractive someones???), but I don't think I'd want to be legally contracted in marriage anymore. Too confining.

[zeebo phillips]

No fuck that

seriously try this it will work, as long as he has a dick it'll work!!

When he gets it from work or what it is that he does next time make sure your playing some slow music, candle lights all that shit etc, wear something sexy and revealing and then the rest is up to you, you can just jump on him if you want to it will work

i just had to make the size bigger to get noticed seriously try it lol

Hahaha, then later you said to talk to him!

[souldistortion]

Ganja, What are your credentials to be so damn opinionated with SO little facts to go on? Are you a college graduate? If so, what is your degree in? How old are you? You talk like you think you're a licensed psychologist but then again no real therapist would come to such definitive conclusions without so much as a case history on both people in this situation. That's my :twocents:

I was thinking the exact same thing myself

[Jiminy]

just out of curiousity hippie girl what is it about you that prevents you from hooking up? In my experience us guys aren't to picky especially when drunk.

[IanCurtisWishlist]

oh hippie girl, i wish the best for you. i can empathize with wanting some sex, because i have not been laid in 2 years. 2 FUCKING YEARS, yes you are reading that correctly. oh i have had several close encounters, but then i had to be the nice guy. the nice guy doesn't fuck on the first date. the 'NICE GUY' doesn't fuck the girl with a boyfriend. the nice guy finishes last.

what is my point? maybe you are being too nice with your husband. you should be more ambitious with him. if you are ambitious about fucking a person, you can almost certainly get them to do you . you can do anything if you put your mind to it!!

[beachguy in thongs]

Esp. Beachguy, by the way beach guy did you realize that we live in the same city.. we should :stoned: sometime.

Yes, I did realize that...No, I did not realize that, how could I? Wow.

Maybe, we should :stoned:, sometime. :smokin:

Can you contact me by looking at my profile, or something?

[RainyDayWoman]

hold me let me hold you
I want you I want you...
in me.
Whisper to me, tell me something softly in my ear. Something, anything, tell me you want me.
I want to nibble on your ear, I want to run my hands through your hair, let me sigh, sigh with pleasure
as I kiss you
kiss your neck
and down
down
kiss you on your body, on your arms on your abs,
kiss you...
everywhere
slide my tongue down your...
I want to savior every bit of you
as you hold me,
hold me.
make me scream silently from within
I want you
I want you inside of
me
tease me, make me beg,
I don't care
I need you.
make me feel like a woman again...

am i really all alone here..?

Have you said this to him?
If you haven't you should....
maybe not all at once
don't want to overwhelm him...

As you said,
Whisper to me, tell me something softly in my ear. Something, anything, tell me you want me.

That's exactly what you should be saying and doing.
What more could a man want than his wife's desire to be for him?

Marriage at it's best is a committment to each others happiness.
If he's too embarrassed to seek help, he's not very committed.
Anything less is selfishness.

Make him your priority
Good luck

[souldistortion]

What kind of douche denies pleasing a 25 year old woman craving sex? Guys usually have to try their damnedest to get a girl to sleep with them and here this guy is not appreciating what hes got.

[NightProwler]

wait, will he not have sex with you or something?