I Need Some Serious Help...

[invoke]

Well, as so much as I really appreciate the flaming, I'll try to explain this as best I can.

You have to know my dad, he's very hypocritical and no matter WHAT I do he will critisize me for it and never let it go. He also went through this same thing with my 2 brothers, so I guess he's come to expect it, but he also has a history of loosing his temper at times. So it's either A) "Dishoner my dad" and lie to him, or B) Not get my ass kicked and admit to him that I lied and was wrong. I can't go back for what I did lie about, and if I could, I would. You have to talk to my dad when he's calm and can see it coming, if ANYTHING is a surprise to him, he over-blows it way out of proportion.

Also, I really don't value having my life taken away. When I get grounded, everything goes. Friends, computer, games, TV, even leaving the house. I seriously cannot do a damn thing but sit there and stare at the walls. Now, if you want to call thinking about something before I actually make a stupid decision being a pussy, so be it. Each person has their own mind set, and they think differently. But don't come here trying to bash on me for being a little worried of my dad's reaction.

invoke Reviewed by invoke on 07-25-2006. I Need Some Serious Help... Please only reply to this thread seriously, I'm really worried about this... I mean I can take a joke, but I just need some help right now. Alright so last night I was smoking outta my glass pipe, some pretty good shit I might add, but I had put a towel under the door, clogged my airvent with sheets, and then opened the windows and put the fan on blaring right out the window. I made SURE to blow each hit into the fan. I left the fan on about an hour after, just to make sure. Now, this was at Rating: 5

[cannabis campbell]

Yeah but at the end of the day he cant really critize (sp) you for smoking weed if he did it himself can he? because that would just make him hyprocritical (sp)

[invoke]

Like I said, it is just like my dad to do that. If I say anything with the word hypocrite he uses the old, "I care about you and I want you to have a better life than me." He'll also stop while he's ahead. If we're in an arguement and I bring up a good point, he'll just sit there and shake his head and tell me my punishment and send me to my room. If I walk out? I move out. No option after that.

[Bong30]

CC i dont care about your spelling.... people that just sit here and correct grammer need to get a life..


And yes guys I was just tring to Show him what Being a Man is like. Not flaming anyone.

When you guys are 35, read my post again.. then give me a high 5.

Yes Im an asshole.....tell me something i dont know

[invoke]

Heh, guess you are a man of Tough Love...

Edit: I understand where you're coming from Bong, I'm not trying to make you out to be an asshole... I just never really had someone whip me into shape when I was growing up so I'm not used to someone explaining something to me in the way that you did.

[Bong30]

Heh, guess you are a man of Tough Love...

Edit: I understand where you're coming from Bong, I'm not trying to make you out to be an asshole... I just never really had someone whip me into shape when I was growing up so I'm not used to someone explaining something to me in the way that you did.

I didnt have a DAD.......

now that i am a DAD and Have learned every thing the hard way

i have tons of information for you guys......


Like this 5th commandment i am no bible thumper either....

"Thou shalt honour your father and your mother..."
The obligation to honor one's parents is an obligation that one owes to God and fulfills this obligation through one's actions towards one's parents


Do you know how go you will fell walking away from that conversation. You Dad might not let you smoke dope. BUT HE MIGHT THINK YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY TO BEING A MAN. If you are a man... he cant stop you from smoking SEE?:thumbsup:

[invoke]

Damn it, now i'm on the brink of telling him... I just don't wanna do it while he's been drinking because I dunno what'll go through his mind then. I just don't know how to get the conversation started.

Thanks for the insight Bong. :thumbsup:

[Bong30]

you need to get your thoughts together.........

write some stuff down...... when you get into it you dont want to go off track. good or bad.


I wish you the best of LUCK... Hang in there.

Remember right after i would have Ripped you a new asshole... i would have hugged ya...

Parents are like that... best of Luck.

[WeedFaerie420]

cliff notes?

[Bong30]

cliff notes?

Hummm?????