I'm not being stubborn....I have some people telling it's not pot and then some people telling me it is?.....so what the hell am I suppose to do as a first time grower?...who do I listen to?... the people laughing at me and saying it isn't weed?...or the people saying it is weed?...or are they just saying that they are weed plants just to laugh at me?....or are the ones telling me that they aren't weed plants just want to see me throw away perfectly good weed palnts and then laugh at me?.....people sure do know how to discourage a person????????