I'm still laughing at the "mind of a 32 year old" bit on the first post, especially after skimming through his problems and the way you act like any 16 year old.

You shouldn't be relying on randoms on a message board to solve your problems, THat is immaturity, I know an outsiders perspective is helpfull but then thats why I smoke pot, Just think, reflect and learn to see through other peoples eyes and understand things from their point of view.

From there you will find compromise and solution.

I really sound like a hippy/new age weirdo sometimes, But I'm sure it's just a phase...I'm a sarcastic cynic generally