WHICH ONE???

[EastStandHibby]

Looking back at my high school dating, and having the experience I have now at 23, I would go with choice number 2 because number one fucked up, and if you let her get away with it, she's likely to do it again, and also because i won't date people who aren't cool with what I do.

Oh and what is that thing in your avatar.. it weirds me out.

thats the meaning of it, it weirds me out to, WTF are the perfect leters to go in it

[EastStandHibby]

Looks to me like you already made your decision when you told girl #1 that you would get back together with herâ?¦(mistake IMO) she already had her chance. I donâ??t care how much she cried. You should have told her that you started seeing someone else.

I have a feeling girl #2 is gonna get shit on here.

it was a mistake to say yes again, if I didn't I wouldn't be in this situation, I'm seeing girl number 1 at 4pm today, its 6:30 for me just now. I really cant imagin my life without her but I'm gonna finish with her, I heard the night she kissed him they where allways together and flirting and she kissed him when she had to go, even her friends told me.... I love her so much but if she was worth it she wouldn't have done that. Thanks guys I'll let yous know what happens

[LordSmaug]

Who cares if she doesn't smoke weed, she accepted you as a smoker and you need to accept her as a non-smoker. Respect her choices man. You can't just chuck 14 months of commitment out the window because you met some floosey 6 months ago who's into you. And you can't use her being "flirty" with some other guy when you where doing the exact same thing for 6 months while contemplating a break up. If you really "love her to bits" you never would have posted this thread to begin with. In any case, think about what really is going to yeild positive results here, and base your decision on that.

[smitty420]

relationships r shitty, after my last one i plan on not getting into a seirous one untill im like 22ish and its time to start looking for wife material.

[Az.]

I suggest you dont go out with either seriously...just leave it as a completly open relationship on both sides....for now...until you are 100% sure you want to see either

That way you can meet up with both....get to know them ( nothing sexual really has to happen) and then you can choose but not hurt anyone (if you make sure they know that the relationship is open....not completly obviously...lik "IM SEEING ANOTHER GIRL BY THE WAY!!!!")

But just so no one gets hurt at the end of the day

Thats assuming they don't know each other.....and you are honest with them.

Just my thoughts


Also has girl one asked that you stop smoking for her?

[EastStandHibby]

I suggest you dont go out with either seriously...just leave it as a completly open relationship on both sides....for now...until you are 100% sure you want to see either

That way you can meet up with both....get to know them ( nothing sexual really has to happen) and then you can choose but not hurt anyone (if you make sure they know that the relationship is open....not completly obviously...lik "IM SEEING ANOTHER GIRL BY THE WAY!!!!")

But just so no one gets hurt at the end of the day

Thats assuming they don't know each other.....and you are honest with them.

Just my thoughts


Also has girl one asked that you stop smoking for her?

sadly they do both know each other and despise each other, number 1 was convinced I was cheating on her with number 2 for a while, and yeah she kinda asked me but she knew I wouldnt and now just accepts it and sometimes does it with me

[likemclever]

So how did things shake out?

Don't put this shit off...it just gets worse.

[EastStandHibby]

So how did things shake out?

Don't put this shit off...it just gets worse.

well I did it.....but when I did she started crying like fuck, then she stopped and asked if we could still be friends cause she doesn't want to have me out her life alltogether, I said sure and then she kissed me on the cheek, thats when it hit in I would never be able to do anything more with her, or lie down with her or even hold her hand. So I bailed, she walked into the room after getting a drink, I went up to her and hugged her, slided down to my knees and ate her out, we're still together. I can't do it, I'm just gonna have to face the music when Number 2 gets back from holiday in 7 days.

Thanks a lot you guys

[Baz2137]

Girl # 2 may not last long, but it will be an experience you'll learn from, all girl # 1 will turn into is disaster, except for the fact she'll go head over heels to do anything for you

[smoke it]

hey man once a cheater, always a cheater go wit girl number 2