female - produce buds (these are the ones u want to keep in ur grow)
males - produce polen sacks (these are the ones u want to get rid off, unless u want to polinate some females to have seeds), this is just a rough idea ok??
cause u need to read some more m8 a female aint a "budding stage" of the plants life peak...a female plant life peak IS the "budding stage" dif things ok???
here´s something to help u out

http://rapidshare.de/files/14612193/Can.zip - that´s the cannabis grow bible read it....

http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...=cannabis+grow - that´s a simple video of a dude growing indoor watch it....