Thats really bummin me out. I've talked to my roommate more and he hasnt told his girlfriend. I still havent decided...but I'm leaning more towards no grow... I appreciate your comments everyone, there were even a few heartwarming ones HA. Anyways, I just drew up some plans for what would be my grow box. Figured I'd share it with y'all just to see what you think, even though it probably wont be happening...

There are a few things about this that I have always pondered on:
1) Would a 10-gal res/plant container be enough nute solution to support four plants in net pots?
2) With a drip setup like this, what size pump should be used, and how often should it be run?
3) A carbon filter should be used with a centrifugal fan correct? An inline blower from Home Depot possible?
4) How should seedlings be started in a hydro grow? In rockwool cubes or what?

The front would be faux finished to look as a dresser with drawers and handles and all, with the intake fans in back and the carbon filter exhaust coming out the back. In the seedling chamber I was planning on using a heat mat with a thin germination tray and 2 x 2ft flouro tubes.
Anyways, if you have any questions or comments, theyre greatly appreciated, and itd be awesome if I didnt get any bashing this time...just looking for help here.