Quote Originally Posted by smitty420
by the cycling thing do u mean that this is a normal cycle for a relationship to end or that its a normal cycle and we may get back together and this is just a stepping stone.
You are going away, really wouldnt matter where you were going, the down hill roll effect and the break up are indeed sighns of a seperation cycle.

Basically breaking off interest in order to save from pain.

May be a stepping stone in the relationship, only time will tell. I just know that all couples when faced with a long seperation go thru a similiar cycle.