As far as picking up chicks, there is a book called "The Game: Penetrating the secret society of pick-up artists".

Its a good read, and will explain allot about picking up chicks, that maybe you already know, and maybe you dont, either way I'd recomend it to anyone.

Go get a book on relationship cycles, I dont know of one off hand most of what i know ive gotten from seminars. It will really clue you in to the fact that what yer going thru is a natural means of dealing with pain.

Greaveing proccess.

Dont make me go Dr. Phil on you again ! lol

Peace.