The term "manly man" for me brings to mind a room full of obnoxious piss-ass drunk guys belching, hollering at a baseball game and groping any woman passing by.....lol but UGH, Id prefer a guy somewhere in b/w m-man and metro, definitely someone who doesn't mind dressing nice sometimes....as for me being a trendsetter from a woman's perspective, uhhh id be at the middle-to-lower end on the totem pole. I definitely know how to dress well but Id rather pay $200 for some kick-ass chronic than for the latest Louie-Vuitton purse that'll be out of season in a month.....just meee though.