Yea weed brings out your inner problems and you gotta deal with them or let them eat you. I think it is what Bob Marley means when he says "I am a duppy conqorer". It does change you, but if you don't like the way you are on pot, then quit! Once your straight for 3 days or something you feel like every other "normal" person and start caring about a job, money, and ......materials. Dont stress about it changing you bc you can always change back.