Quote Originally Posted by Torog

The second and third generations,are toking now,and it continues to amaze me and make me feel old,when I hear younguns talk about how their parents toke and about how they found their stash or something..lol. I'm still trying to come to terms with the whole deal..lol.

Any other old stoners like me,who feel somewhat flamboozeled by this ?

Have a good one ! :stoned:
You are so on the money Torog. Man,......This is where balance comes in. A very good filter to screen most anything thru, is to consider how we would feel about our kids doing similarly. Observing families where the parents openly displayed, questionable activities, would unnerve me. I now realize that it is better to not hide from the family. Teaching our own kids to be hidden, is usually worse. To teach them to live an open life, honest with themselves, honest with others, Is a much healthier life than those taught hiddeness. There is something so validating, and energized, to.........be able to be who we are. To bless our kids to enjoy the freedom to live un-shamed.

I do have some major difficulties, for one ... the awareness that my kids lack the maturity to properly boundary this and exercise self control, and they haven't!!.........They re in there 20's. and I live straight with them all. I just won't hide ~ period. I don't allow it, now,. So therefore, by default, I'm not comfortable.

Then there's legality issues........ still, Man, If it involves illegalities,...Its more than I can comfortably pass down.

I'll tell ya, A friend gave me a joint 3 weeks ago, at least three weeks now!!!
I haven't been able to touch it, because of these problems. He asked me what I thought of it,........I ...I just don't have the freedom right now........I have to laugh,.... He went to my car, broke it in half, smoked his half,......and now I have half a joint... aaaaawww...The psychology of child rearing, scruples, and politics......

See, I just......... lay it out, This is me baby

I've been off a while, there's been alot going on. I got on to see where shelbay is. It's good to see you torog, and shelbay both.

I hope your enjoying the gulf, Shelbay.