Quote Originally Posted by FindingTim
So I went to Mammoth this weekend and left my 20 sack in an incredible hiding place in my house. When I returned home, my "best friend" informed me that he walked over to my house, searched through my stuff, eventually found my bud, and smoked it. He said he was sorry and that he was desperate, and then he proceeded to smoke me out with a couple bowlsof some other weed (which was really good by the way). It seemed a little weird that he would take my weed, so I went home, and in a paranoid state of mind, hid my money so that he couldn't find it.

Do you think that what he did was fucked up, and is this reason not to trust him in the future?
An incredible hiding place in my house. This seems to me that he was searching for a long, long time and going through everything.
He was desperate - only ten percent of stoners 'get desperate'.
A couple of bowls? Why cant he pay you back the twenty bucks, or buy you a 20 sack?

Seems to me like theres more going on here than is showing on the surface. Has your friends behaviour been a little strange lately? Anything he is saying that is out-of-character? Im not saying that hes on harder stuff, because if he was, he would be nicking yer DVD player by now. Im just wondering if hes starting to become someone that has to depend on weed to get them through the day. If he is becoming like that, Id talk with him. Its much, much easier to 'nip it in the bud' and if youre wrong, just apologise and Im sure everything will be cool between you. Just think to yourself though - if you dont say anything or keep an eye out, and he ends up being one of the minority that steals in order to buy their next sack, then youll kick yourself for not saying anything earlier.

Of course I could be entirely wrong and yer mate could just be going through a tough time right now and he needed a smoke - weve all been there. But a question that pops into my mind is, if he was a bit stressed out and needed to chill with Mary for a while, then why didnt he just ring up his dealer and ask? Why did he have to rummage through your personal belongings in order to get a buzz?