Shitty Friend?

[FindingTim]

to answer somebody's question, I went to Mammoth, did some hiking, ate out a lot, got food poisoning from "The Mogul" and I set up my pitching machine with my family and hit baseballs at Shady Rest Park. And I didn't make it to Rainbow Falls, but I did go to Hot Creek, if you know where that is. There was a new eruption of boiling hot water so the creek was fenced off- it sucked.

[JuggaloAtTheDoor]

if he told u str8 up I'd trust him.. if hes a realiable person, depends on personality

[fat4fun]

stealing is stealing, end of story

[Nochowderforyou]

I remeber for a short stint when I was 17 dealing weed for these small deal dealers. I had gone out one day to deliver and brought a little extra to sell along the way. My buddy one night told me after a night of drinking, that that day, he came to my place to buy an 1/8, I wasn't home, so instead he broke into my house, looking through my freezer and my house, looking for my stash. Luckily I had it all with me, or he would have stolen it.

I haven't talked to him in 6 years since. When someone goes through that much trouble, to befriend you, and go through your things, and take money out of your pocket, that's the end of the line.

By the way, it sounds like your friend smoothed things over with a nice bowl. If he didn't have any weed and still confessed to you, would have still forgiven him?

[JR77]

So in the future is it OK if he does something to you again and he knows he can just apologize and everything's fine again?

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

That IS fucked up... It's like one of the cardinal rules of pot smokers- "Thou shall not steal thou friend's weed!"

And then he magically had some more to smoke you up with? I don't get it... why did he gank yours if he had some already?

[420Mikey420]

The thing is that if it's cool, you'd be cool with it. I've got exactly one friend that could get away with this... but he's my bro and we've been down every road for 30 years and a lot more than pinching a bit of bud has gone on between us. Obviously you don't look at this guy like that so yeah it was a fucked up thing to do. Seems to me he did the right thing by telling you, though. If you think your friendship with this dude is worth $20, maybe you can find a way to forgive, if not forget. But you need to tell him that he needs to stay the hell out of your shit if he values the friendship. That's a serious invasion of your privacy.

So I went to Mammoth this weekend and left my 20 sack in an incredible hiding place in my house. When I returned home, my "best friend" informed me that he walked over to my house, searched through my stuff, eventually found my bud, and smoked it. He said he was sorry and that he was desperate, and then he proceeded to smoke me out with a couple bowls of some other weed (which was really good by the way). It seemed a little weird that he would take my weed, so I went home, and in a paranoid state of mind, hid my money so that he couldn't find it.

Do you think that what he did was fucked up, and is this reason not to trust him in the future?

[Tom Swierzbinski]

So I went to Mammoth this weekend and left my 20 sack in an incredible hiding place in my house. When I returned home, my "best friend" informed me that he walked over to my house, searched through my stuff, eventually found my bud, and smoked it. He said he was sorry and that he was desperate, and then he proceeded to smoke me out with a couple bowlsof some other weed (which was really good by the way). It seemed a little weird that he would take my weed, so I went home, and in a paranoid state of mind, hid my money so that he couldn't find it.

Do you think that what he did was fucked up, and is this reason not to trust him in the future?

An incredible hiding place in my house. This seems to me that he was searching for a long, long time and going through everything.
He was desperate - only ten percent of stoners 'get desperate'.
A couple of bowls? Why cant he pay you back the twenty bucks, or buy you a 20 sack?

Seems to me like theres more going on here than is showing on the surface. Has your friends behaviour been a little strange lately? Anything he is saying that is out-of-character? Im not saying that hes on harder stuff, because if he was, he would be nicking yer DVD player by now. Im just wondering if hes starting to become someone that has to depend on weed to get them through the day. If he is becoming like that, Id talk with him. Its much, much easier to 'nip it in the bud' and if youre wrong, just apologise and Im sure everything will be cool between you. Just think to yourself though - if you dont say anything or keep an eye out, and he ends up being one of the minority that steals in order to buy their next sack, then youll kick yourself for not saying anything earlier.

Of course I could be entirely wrong and yer mate could just be going through a tough time right now and he needed a smoke - weve all been there. But a question that pops into my mind is, if he was a bit stressed out and needed to chill with Mary for a while, then why didnt he just ring up his dealer and ask? Why did he have to rummage through your personal belongings in order to get a buzz?

[LazySmoking420]

I'd be pissed!

It's like he went into your house a stole 20 dollars off your dresser.

[LazySmoking420]

It's not crack..He didnt need it