You are way too late to start from seed in NY.
You should read the FAQs and the boards.
Once you familiarize yourself with the process, you can get started next spring for the 2007 outdoor season.
If you live with your mom, just be aware that if you grow on her property you can get her in deep dookie. Read up on civil forfeiture before you put your family at risk.
Railroad, power lines, thruway property is safer.