I don't think that anybody understands what you are asking. Do you expect her to make the first move, romantically? Is a date too "old-fashioned"? Isn't she worth spending some bucks on? Are you afraid of getting turned down?

Look, I bet that if you made a date, brought flowers, and acted like a gentleman, you'd do fine.

Unfortunatly, many potheads are unwilling to do these things. I've been there, and it's humiliating - but if you want a girl, sometimes that's the best way to act, at least for a while in the beginning. Just play their game, it won't kill you.