Guys/Ladies you have to understand I cant ask her out yet ... I feel I cant. I want some kind of re-assurance, I dont know Im like that. I found out that her boyfriend said he loves her and isnt leaving her, but she really doesnt like him anymore she constantly bitchs about him. Any way Im not really the best with ladies but how do you think I could put a bit of charm on her at a party sometime, and see if there's anything that comes out of this. Please understand Im not at the point to just ask her out, I know its much easier said than done.