Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyCutCorners
Guys/Ladies you have to understand I cant ask her out yet ... I feel I cant. I want some kind of re-assurance, I dont know Im like that. I found out that her boyfriend said he loves her and isnt leaving her, but she really doesnt like him anymore she constantly bitchs about him. Any way Im not really the best with ladies but how do you think I could put a bit of charm on her at a party sometime, and see if there's anything that comes out of this. Please understand Im not at the point to just ask her out, I know its much easier said than done.

you don't have to outright ask her out. damn convention dude. just try to isolate yourself with her in any way you can. since she btches about her previous boyfriend, it seems apparent that she endeavors for a more chivalrous ideal. the advantage you have is that she likes you , and you can introduce her to new strains and venues of thought that she isn't accustomed to with her former douchebag boyfriends. since you're not the usual cassanova, you don't need to swoon her in the way she expects. just remember that girls are used to stupid shit that guys feed them and you can go a long way by being extraordinarily different