Quote Originally Posted by PureEvil760
In your relationships with others, your ego convinces you that your partner is just what you need to fill the emptiness within you. This is a great ruse that will forever keep you from knowing love and peace. If you are incomplete, that is all you will have to give away, because you can't give away what you don't possess. You will give your partner an incomplete person who is afraid of being discovered. There is no way authentic love can flourish in this kind of dishonest atmosphere. You will be unable to know love and to receive it without questioning it.

The secret which we are missing is: We are expecting love from others first, we are not starting with giving. If you could love without self-seeking, all negativities would be gone.. all hurting of eachother would be gone.
Though that only works if EVERYONE does it ... otherwise it's just those people that get screwed in the end :\