Hey Pumpkin

I can't say I've ever been in the same boat as you, as I'm only 18 (with no kids!)

I'd have to completely disagree, You might want a toke, but does your unborn child get a say in this? It's really not worth it, you've got the most precious thing you can imagine growing inside of you, and anyone with any common sense would not do anything to jepordise that.