faultydesign, Thanks for the good advice man. This is very true.

Potheed420, Thanks for the opinion. I was intrested in working for the post office. But i cant get any openings for a long time. Also jobs working for the city are real hard to get in my town.

m.g, My wife and i spend alot of time apart as it is because she visits her family every few months in AZ. So in that sense, we are used to spending time apart. My other problem is, even if i wanted to, i would not be able to afford to move anywhere at the moment. So basically im stuck here. And after all the Bills i am left with enough for groceries and essentials, so saving money is kind of outa the question.

Thanks guys. I would still like to hear more opinions.

m.g, Thank you for the info and advice.