Quote Originally Posted by muncheemama
I would like to correct myself with this statement.....

*apparently* this method should only be used if you want to be a liar and make everyone think you quit smoking...this is a good way of wasting your fucking money by buying patches and gum and still fucking buying ciggerettes...this method is the way to go if you arent man enough to just say "hey I dont want to quit smoking and I would like to die at a young age.." So really this method is no method at all, unless you just love trying to make yourself look better than you really are....so if this is your method, FUCK YOU!!! If you decide to go this route, you need to be prepared for getting busted by the people you have been lying to...because, really, youre a shitty fucking liar to begin with...but when you do get caught, take that opportunity to say something besides..."you make it hard for me to be honest.." boo fucking hoo! so once again FUCK YOU, and your fucking lying ass, and when you do this, you should just alltogether forget about preeching about how much integrity you have and how good you are....fuck you! and fuck you....
well i can put 2 and 2 together and sorry MM =/ anytime i did end up smoking again, i ended up telling my wife that day (most of the time she was with me when i picked one up, but other times i would be with like a friend and i would just give in, later that night i'd tell her) i don't know what to tell you but i know you're pissed.. i guess it comes down to, did he really give it a try, then just couldn't do it, or has he just been lying from day one?

if the first, maybe try more encouragement (it ended up working for me) and i have used the aids before (all of 'em) i never could quit that way, i bought me an OZ and some gum, anytime i got a craving, i would smoke weed, thus i re-programmed my mind into "i want a joint" instead of "i want a cigarette" and towards the end of the ounce, when some of the stronger cravings came about, i switched that fixation to gum (knowing i very well couldn't be a 'pack a day smoker' with weed... after a week or two, i stopped wanting them all together.. now i find them disgusting and am alot more active, can breathe and just all around feel healthier and happier...

however, if it's the second... give him a good swift kick the balls while he's on hte ground crying like a bitch ask him "why are you crying? you don't got the balls to tell me the truth... so what's causing you this pain"