Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry, girls can be so cruel, well guys too, but in this case...
I have a few guy friends who have been there and it seems like they take it so much harder than girls do. I don't know if that's true just my personal exp. with my friends. I know it's so easy for me and everybody else here, to say just get over it, she's not worth it-- and as true as that is, it's just not that easy.

Also, I would like to point out that drugs are not the answer, it's cool to enjoy yourself, and no doubt we all do or otherwise we wouldn't be here, but don't turn to them to solve your problems! Your problems are just going to be there waiting for you when you 'wake up'

It wasn't meant to be, do what you have to to move on... and Never try the 'friends' thing, it's like putting salt on a wound or whatever.
I'm sorry I don't have any real advise for you, just wanted to send hugs your way...