Quote Originally Posted by Gothen
Ya know, that's real cool. That's really productive. Do you think that changes anything? Do you not think I realize how unimportant, small, and meangingless my life is? So what if what I'm going through isn't "suffering enough" for you or anyone else. No offense, but fuck you man. You had no right to shit on me and try to make me feel like crap because I'm whining about "some bitch leaving me."

I posted what I did to give you some perspective.

- I didn't once say you weren't suffering enough for me.
- I didn't say or remotely suggest your life was small or meaningless.
- I had every right to post what I did. I didn't shit on you in any way shape or form.

You simply took my post and attached a bunch of emotional bullshit to it, making me look like I attacked you in some way. The advice I was giving you was not meant to be negative towards you it was real advice.

I was grieving about a bitch that left me a few years back. I was devastated almost to suicide. Then a friend of mine who worked for world vision sat me down and gave me a message very similiar to what I posted to you. I also thought he was trying to make me feel bad. I went to Africa for 3 months and unloaded cargo supplies and helped towns of suffering people. I saw people being shot, burned beaten, starving. I helped the victims.

After the 3 months I came back and forgot the bitches last name who left me.

Do I think that changes anything? Experience something like that and you tell me. Does that change anything? FUCK YES it does. It changes your whole perspective of the problems in your own life. It makes you feel like you can handle this small shit that your brain blows out of proportion.

I am not saying don't grieve, and I am not suggesting you are bad for feeling the way you are. i was offering a real solution. If it is really THAT bad that your whole life is just fucked because of it, you either can greive it out over a lengthly period of time and eventualy just get over it. (who knows how long that could take), or you could do some soul searching and eventualy realise how small this chick is in the grand scheme of your life.

I was just giving you real advice, if you didn't want to take it, ignore me. Fuck me? Fuck you kid. Keep sittin there feeling sorry for yourself and cutting yourself over some bitch.