Quote Originally Posted by Skink
We men get hit the hardest for some reason... You will find in time it was for the best,cause if she loved you,she would not pull shit like this... This is usaully part one in the control game and she played the card at the time most woman do,when they know yur hooked,and she knows...

You're absolutely right. A lot can happen in nine months (I've been in a relationship for the past nine months). I think it takes a lot of nerve to pull something like that.

Maybe she's afraid of being tied down? If she really loves you she'll realize what she did wrong and try to reconcile. Don't forgive her too easily, though.

And self-destructing only makes things worse. My mom is doing it with her break-up and it's just bringing her down and everyone around her further down. People do give a shit, like us on cann.com, so talk to us instead of hurting yourself. It just isn't worth it.

Stay strong, dear, this will all pass sooner or later.
zeebo phillips Reviewed by zeebo phillips on . Well, She Left Me... So, I guess this is another vent thread. Sorry I'm wasting up space, but I need to get it out and its 2:30 am and I'm all alone and I really can't handle it. Been with this girl for 9 months now and last night we get into an argument and I say some things that I don't mean because she was going out with her friends on the anniversary of my uncle's suicide. I told her it'd mean a lot to me if she stayed home, but she left anyway, so I yelled at her and said that I hated her and it pissed me off Rating: 5