if you want any chance at all of getting her back you'll need to give her space. that means don't call her or have any contact with her...let her do that. you'll do a lot better by acting like, 'oh well...' than if you forced yourself into her life right now. there's still a chance but you need to be cool, calm and collected (yes, an old phrase but a truthful one).

take back the power she has taken from you...be strong and make yourself available to other ladies!