Yeah dude, breakups are always tough. When i dated this one girl for around the same time you dated that one chick, when we broke up, it sucked. I really felt depressed and just felt like my life was crumbling down. I had friends to support me through it though, and a family that helped with it. Smoking herb helps the pain and it makes your life a lot less hectic. In the end though, you will see that it was meant to be the way it is now. I realized that after me and my girl friend broke up. You may not agree with me, but i'm sure it will end up that way. Also, don't get down and not try to hook up with any girls for a long time. The way to heal yourself is the way of getting back in the game. Go out with friends, meet some girls, have a good time. There are so many girls (fish) in the sea that you will find that special someone someday. Believe me, it takes time, but when you do, it is all worth it in the end. Hope everything starts lookin up for you man.