Quote Originally Posted by Skink
We men get hit the hardest for some reason... You will find in time it was for the best,cause if she loved you,she would not pull shit like this... This is usaully part one in the control game and she played the card at the time most woman do,when they know yur hooked,and she knows...

You're absolutely right. A lot can happen in nine months (I've been in a relationship for the past nine months). I think it takes a lot of nerve to pull something like that.

Maybe she's afraid of being tied down? If she really loves you she'll realize what she did wrong and try to reconcile. Don't forgive her too easily, though.

And self-destructing only makes things worse. My mom is doing it with her break-up and it's just bringing her down and everyone around her further down. People do give a shit, like us on cann.com, so talk to us instead of hurting yourself. It just isn't worth it.

Stay strong, dear, this will all pass sooner or later.