Quote Originally Posted by Sabrinaleena
Ummm... "some" of what what said in this post is true, but maybe you might want to diregard the compliment mixed with insult part. I'm telling you right now as a female, that'll just piss us off, and a pissed off woman is not the kind of woman you want giving you a blow job.

Actually after re-reading that last post, it sounds like you're being given instructions on how to play head games with your woman. If that's how you want to go about a relationship that seems important to you, by all means. But I don't think that a blow job is worth fucking with someones feelings by complimenting/insulting on purpose, or telling them something they do is a turn off but "your not quite sure what it is". Or deliberately making her feel rejected from time to time. Damn, I'd dump a guy in a heartbeat if I felt he was manipulating me like that.

Well, now to the other part. I'm thinking that since she's 18 she doesn't really know how to give a blow job. Most 18 yr olds dont unless they've had way too much exp and it sounds like yours hasn't (which is probably a good thing). And I'm guessing that maybe she's afraid that 1) Your dick is going to stink or taste bad, even if it doesn't and 2) She's afraid she might screw it up, turn you off or possibly even cause you discomfort.

If she's willing to watch some porn with you, get something that shows alot of blow jobs being given in it. It would help her in alot of ways as she could see different techniques, you could even comment on some of them to show her that it's something you're interested in trying with her. But, if she won't watch porn with you, then it's quite possible that she's a bit conservative and you'll have to work a bit more slowly on her.

Anyway, hope that helps


Sabrina

Thanks, that was actually really good information on this whole subject. I feel what you are saying and it's good. I'm not sure if she will watch porn with me, but i'll try to bring it up with her tonight when i see her. The whole thing about her not knowing how to give a blowjob is probably true, and i'm actually glad she hasn't gave one before because i'll be the first time for her and hopefully she can just gain experience from doing it with me. Thanks for the information.