The pleasure train hits the girls... ??

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Ummm... "some" of what what said in this post is true, but maybe you might want to diregard the compliment mixed with insult part. I'm telling you right now as a female, that'll just piss us off, and a pissed off woman is not the kind of woman you want giving you a blow job.

Actually after re-reading that last post, it sounds like you're being given instructions on how to play head games with your woman. If that's how you want to go about a relationship that seems important to you, by all means. But I don't think that a blow job is worth fucking with someones feelings by complimenting/insulting on purpose, or telling them something they do is a turn off but "your not quite sure what it is". Or deliberately making her feel rejected from time to time. Damn, I'd dump a guy in a heartbeat if I felt he was manipulating me like that.

Well, now to the other part. I'm thinking that since she's 18 she doesn't really know how to give a blow job. Most 18 yr olds dont unless they've had way too much exp and it sounds like yours hasn't (which is probably a good thing). And I'm guessing that maybe she's afraid that 1) Your dick is going to stink or taste bad, even if it doesn't and 2) She's afraid she might screw it up, turn you off or possibly even cause you discomfort.

If she's willing to watch some porn with you, get something that shows alot of blow jobs being given in it. It would help her in alot of ways as she could see different techniques, you could even comment on some of them to show her that it's something you're interested in trying with her. But, if she won't watch porn with you, then it's quite possible that she's a bit conservative and you'll have to work a bit more slowly on her.

Anyway, hope that helps


Sabrina

Thanks, that was actually really good information on this whole subject. I feel what you are saying and it's good. I'm not sure if she will watch porn with me, but i'll try to bring it up with her tonight when i see her. The whole thing about her not knowing how to give a blowjob is probably true, and i'm actually glad she hasn't gave one before because i'll be the first time for her and hopefully she can just gain experience from doing it with me. Thanks for the information.

[WeedFaerie420]

Girls get more pleasure than guys, and then the girls don't wanna give the pleasure back. Why is this? It really ticks me off at times..

Have you ever had a long-term relationship with a girl? If you have, and it's that hard for you to get a hand job, that is sad and it isn't the norm. Also, just because you finger a girl and feel her boobs doesn't mean she is cumming from that so maybe you didn't really earn cumming yourself. If you are in a relationship with a girl and you aren't being "pleasured" you should openly talk about it and ask for what you want in a sensitive way and ask about how you could possibly do things better for her. The best for me is when my man eats me out and makes me a cum a couple of times (it doesn't take him long, he's well trained lol) right before sex and I give him head whenever he wants unless i'm not feeling well at that moment. Communication will help your situation...unless it's a random slut ur hooking up with for the first time..then you're probably shit outa luck.

[WeedFaerie420]

You could compliment her and insult her at the same time.
Tell her she has a pretty feature but then tie that to an alleged turn-off in an indirect way.

roflmao...wow, that is some bad advice

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Lol, yeah. Well, thanks for the good advice (and bad). Everything seems to be working out now with me and her. So yeah.. happy times!:thumbsup:

[Ganjasaurusrex]

roflmao...wow, that is some bad advice

Really, seems to work on the rest of the sisterhood and unless you knew it was being done to you, you wouldnt have a clue.



Its called state of confusion.

1. She will be flattered by the compliement.
2. Confused about whether she is a sexual turn-off.
3. Wondering if she is sexy in your eyes.
4. The inner need to satisfy this unsettling feeling< sexual tension.


How about state of value? (rejection).


1. Flattered by the idea that you initially wanted her.
2. Feelings of being rejected (pseudo rejection).
3. Wondering what she did wrong.
4. The human need to correct her (percieved) problem creates an urgency to
(actually) initiate (not passive). < sexual tension.


How about state of beauty, using another beautiful woman in proximaty to make your girl feel pretty instead of telling her so without risking making comparisons to the other girl?

Using competition is the only way to make her feel that way.


There are many mind states where women crave sex, these are just a few.
But I can easily think of at least 10.

Now if any women want to talk about manipulation and game playing when it comes to dating and relationships bring it on.

[OreO]

Im 19 and the reason why i wanted to know how old you where is cause i thought if you were 14, usaully 14 year old girls dont give head and shit like that(atleast the majority that i knew)....anyway i dunno what the prob is cause when i was 16 i remember girls giving head and having sex...its just prob the croud of girls you chill with. Try chillin with diffrent types of girls

[Garden Knowm]

in general.. you dont want head from a LADY who does not want to give it...

95% of the fun is HER desire to perform the "disapearing KAK" trick along with other magical feats. using your MEMBER as their primary PROP..

iloveyou

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

^ Indeed, i know what you mean on that one. If a girl actually wants to do it, then she will go crazy and creative on the man. If she doesn't though, then she will be sloppy and not creative, leading to a sexual downfall and sexual loss. I guess its the same way with a guy giving oral to a girl. If he isn't wanting to eat her out then it won't feel good to the girl as much, and she will get bored and won't desire the sexual needs.

[muncheemama]

I'm thinking that since she's 18 she doesn't really know how to give a blow job. Most 18 yr olds dont unless they've had way too much exp and it sounds like yours hasn't (which is probably a good thing).


Sabrina

hey, now....some people can be good without blowing half the town...naturally talented....

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

^ Lol