No filters exist for me. While I have had plenty of experiences that have certainley led me to form a variety of opinions, they are just that...opinions. How I deal with someone is not based on opinions but rather fact. Unless you've blatantly have done something to cause distrust, I accept you (or anyone else) for who they are. If I find you to be distrustful, then I just stop dealing with you. But in my life, everyone starts with a clean slate. You have one time (and only once) to dirty it...