I'm a girl, and I like being in a relationship, although the pre-relationship flirting and being free stage is kinda cool too. I wouldn't trade up on my relationship though, because I get so much more from it. I've been with Stewart for over two years now, and he's always there for me, he's my best friend, my smoking buddy and more all rolled into one. Plus the sex is great, and I can get it any time I want it! *lol*