Quote Originally Posted by BizzleLuvin
yikes, thats the truth. here is what happened:
we were STONED. i was spending the night. i woke up with her face right next to mine. she says to me 'youre pretty when u sleep' (this is the kinda platonic nicery that goes on between us, the standard dishing-out of friendly compliments. i thought nothing of it, so i said 'you looked hot stuff in your new dress today'). next thing i know, she grabs my whole face and just kisses me. a long, long, LONG kiss. no tongue. just lip. im stunned. totally weirded out. so i just do the next best hting and kiss her back. we exchange a few more pecks and a caress or two.we say NOTHING while this goes on. then i roll back over and fall asleep.
it didnt hit me till i woke up this morning. i'm a little freaked out. because i am not sure whether it was sexual or not. i do NOT swing that way, it one of the few things i wont do and i know that she does. madi and i will hug and cuddle like girl-friends do, but this just blew me away. i didnt say a word about it because i am not sure what to think. wtf? i have this scared feeling in the back of my head that this kinda thing will ruin our relationship. madi knows very well that i do not dig other women, but by kissing her back i think i just screwed up the message. i am just not sure what to do. i bitched at her earlier that day because i HATE her boyfriend, and i am not sure if she took that as some kind of hint. was she just stoned? i dont think so cause madi tends to keep her head well above the water. iam just scared.
need some help u guys! what do you think????
p.s. madi is my platonic soulamte and i want to keep our realtionship
your only choice is to talk to her and tell her how you feel about the situation, if it goes 'untended' she will more than likely get the idea in her head that it's ok by you, thus she's going to build a whole relationship in her head that's not even there and when it all finally comes to light she will more than likely be devestated, or atleast highly upset, upset you don't want her that way, upset you mis-lead her, upset that you didn't say something at the time, upset that she feels like an idiot... yea talk to her, and do it ASAP, the longer you go without doing, the more chance your friendship will be completely ruined by the whole thing...