Quote Originally Posted by dietpepsi0219
no offense to anybody, but the whole leather/bondage/bsdm stuff makes me sick to my stomach. If i was ever banging a girl and she tried to whip me or something id probablly scream and run away. I mean the occasional hand cuffing to the bed and blindfold are welcome but getting spanked with a giant wooden paddle? Nooooo thanks. Ill stick to "normal" sex. I guess one could say that i have a leg/foot fetish.
I usually find that once I get down to business of lovemaking, the girls scream and run away from ME! :dance:

Hey, there's nothing wrong with nice legs!

One reason people do paddling, and other S&M stuff, is to set off their partner's natural painkiller, namely endorphins. They claim to get very high from it, because the body is slowly tricked into thinking that it's in danger. I've never done it, but it sounds like something that stoners would like: a safe (if done correctly) narcotic/sexual type of high. In fact, the practicioners say, for safety's sake, that you should NOT be high on alcohol or drugs when participating in these activities, which leaves most of us out of the picture. :dance: