Quote Originally Posted by GhostFace2K
This may take a while for me to verbally explain , but I'm going to try my best. Tonight, I went to the bars (as usual) and i kept seeing this cute girl that kept connecting with me (visually) so I walked up to her end of the bar and ordered a drink. I casually turned to her and said "Hi, I'm ******* (my name)." I jokingly apologized to her for not having any kind of original pick-up line, and told her I saw her from across the bar and just wanted to introduce myself. The night went well and I got her number, but afterwards I was wondering if this pseudo "I-don't-have-a-line" pickup-line was just a bit too cheesey. It was unintentional and my conversation with her was unrehearsed, but I was wondering if men use this "non-line-line" more frequently then i'm aware of, because when i talk to women i try my hardest not to be cliche. Do you think that a line like this is commonly used by men?


Mistakes

1. You dont buy drinks for women in bars.
2. You never apologize for being confident.
3. You never use any type of "line" or even mention that word to a woman.
4. You stayed too long.
5. Ask her name first then wait for her to ask yours.

Things you did right.

1. She signaled her interest in you first with body language. You approached.
Guys that approach women without body language first fail every time.
Women do the choosing. You do the challenging.

Dont worry about "lines" just connect with her.

2. You got the phone number. At that point you should have politely ended or winded down the conversation and bailed, then wait at least 5 days to call and ask her out for a date for a weekday only. No weekends for 3 weeks into dating.

Never, ever talk on a womans answering machine until you have been dating for at least a solid month or so.

You will send the message to her of your availability, that you are not making her feel obligated, that you are a challenge and you are confident.
You need to do this from the start.
Ganjasaurusrex Reviewed by Ganjasaurusrex on . A question for the women on here This may take a while for me to verbally explain , but I'm going to try my best. Tonight, I went to the bars (as usual) and i kept seeing this cute girl that kept connecting with me (visually) so I walked up to her end of the bar and ordered a drink. I casually turned to her and said "Hi, I'm ******* (my name)." I jokingly apologized to her for not having any kind of original pick-up line, and told her I saw her from across the bar and just wanted to introduce myself. The night went well and Rating: 5