all i have to say is... dont let a girl lead you into thinking that you got a good thing going.. because even if it is, it wont be for long. i am in a relationship now that has been going on and off for about 3 and a half years. and its just falling apart.. i have no idea what goes on in this relationship, and frankly.. i think girls are just crazy ne ways, they have wayyyyy too much time to think it seems like, no matter how much you show them love, they could be in that mood to where they just dont want anything to do with you and that just makes you feel like shit, cause you feel like your putting everything down on this relationship and you feel as if she could care less what you did as long as she got her way. and its not worth letting them get you down as they do so well, i wish i would have never gotten into a relationship, because now i know that im gunna hurt like hell when it ends for good, and there will be nothing i can do about it but sit there and think about what i lost. so just dont do it. well, theres my input. hope things get better for you by the way.