You can't rely on others to fix your problems. Get some help, get a job and start over with your kids. Don't dump your kids because you're unhappy. And Don't flame me. I have been there and back. I had a bad marriage once, and 3 kids. There are shelters, medicaid and help out there. My ex knocked my teeth out so ya can't tell me about bad marriages. But for crying out loud, get over your "sexy" self and think of your kids.