If my husband gives me one more lecture...

[hahaitsdoogle]

If you are in fact so attractive and intelligent, then why havent you saught after a man in your area, that way you could still see your kids, its one thing getting a divorce, but its another to be the one who walked out on their kids.

You have a lot of thinking to do, and in my opinion no person who is sane is stupid enough to do this, i mean honestly.

Seek some help, there are many free clinics in each state, just have to find the right one.

Hope this helps.

[kuulbns]

You can't rely on others to fix your problems. Get some help, get a job and start over with your kids. Don't dump your kids because you're unhappy. And Don't flame me. I have been there and back. I had a bad marriage once, and 3 kids. There are shelters, medicaid and help out there. My ex knocked my teeth out so ya can't tell me about bad marriages. But for crying out loud, get over your "sexy" self and think of your kids.

[beachguy in thongs]

Jump all over her, everyone. Every comment has bashed her. You had some good advice, up there, but, you also put in your biased two-cents worth.

Obviously, she's stoned.

[kuulbns]

I offered help. The best I could. All she did was count it out and keep saying how attractive she is. Looks fade,... use your head. And btw,... the kids shouldn't pay for their parents mistakes Beachguy.

[beachguy in thongs]

But, I don't make mistakes.

I mean, but, I'm not a parent.

[birdgirl73]

I donâ??t think everyone has bashed Sophia at all. I think the voices of reason here are simply hoping Sophia will do nothing until she can get un-high enough and out of escape-mode enough to see that maybe this might not be the best way to escape. I certainly mean no offense to you, Beachguy, and admire your gallant desire to be of assistance. But I don't think you, Sophia, or the other gentleman who offered his assistance can begin to know what youâ??d be getting into. How could you?

Sophia assures us she's received all the clinical help she needs, and if that's the case, then I'm certain along the way one of the therapists told her about dysfunctional antennae. How they have an uncanny way of coming up and out and sensing the other person across the room--or across cyberspace--who's just as dysfunctional and baggage-laden and unhealthy as the first antennae-owner. Those antennae are how baggage-laden people generally manage to find successions of relationships that are even unhealthier than the previous ones theyâ??ve left.

Theyâ??re why several wise souls here tonight have urged her to do some more work on herself before making another choice that wonâ??t benefit anyone in the long run. I really believe this advice has been communicated kindly and with great concern for everyoneâ??s well-being.

[birdgirl73]

Good heavens! I passed my 420th post tonight and didn't even notice. I may have to go celebrate the occasion.

[beachguy in thongs]

I was speaking of doogle, birdgirl. Excellent advice, but he came to the conclusion that if she is so attractive, then she would've already found her Prince Charming, by now. Or, along those lines.

[beachguy in thongs]

. you came to the wrong board :thumbsup:

I guess so.

I think I did, too. I should be at Traumatic Brain Injury support chat.

[Polymirize]

obviously she's ugly, shallow and completely empty on the inside. Seeking to fill that void with sympathy garnered from cannabis.com's message board (interesting choice).

For that reason it seems like she'd be a perfect match for beachguy, who distracts himself from his own meaningless existence by constantly posting about nothing in particular.

You two deserve each other. I wish you all the best.