If my husband gives me one more lecture...

[josh g]

skink, she is a woman, find me one damn woman that doesn't expect their man to put up with them being 'cranky' once in awhile with a big assed smile on their face...

a whore...

[slipknotpsycho]

if you're talking about a prostitute, that doesn't fit in this situation, as i said her man, not her customer... if you're talking about a sexually promiscious woman (doesn't do it for money or other items, but just cuz she wants to or w/e), well, 'whores' get periods too..

[josh g]

well, 'whores' get periods too..

Haha! Right you are.

[sophiastarchild]

What the hell is wrong with you people?

I'm drinking a beer right now. And so is he. Yes, he's in AA. Because he has to be. Didn't say it was working, or that he wanted to be there, or cares at all about quitting drinking.

What the hell is all this whore crap? We've been married for eight years and have two gorgeous children.

We're both bitchy all the time. It's an equal thing. Men can be bitches, too.

[beachguy in thongs]

Here, you can show him some of these.

The Neuroscience of Natural Rewards: Relevance to
Addictive Drugs
http://www.psychiatry.wustl.edu/Reso...May/Kelley.PDF

Marijuana Myths, Claim No. 9
CLAIM #9: MARIJUANA IS AN ADDICTIVE DRUG
http://www.erowid.org/plants/cannabi...is_myth9.shtml

What if you knew that some research indicates that marijuana is not physically addictive?
http://www.kqed.org/topics/news/pers...juana/1no.html

[slipknotpsycho]

What the hell is wrong with you people?

I'm drinking a beer right now. And so is he. Yes, he's in AA. Because he has to be. Didn't say it was working, or that he wanted to be there, or cares at all about quitting drinking.

What the hell is all this whore crap? We've been married for eight years and have two gorgeous children.

We're both bitchy all the time. It's an equal thing. Men can be bitches, too.

...i think you're getting the wrong idea... mmmhmm... oh and if you came to be serious.. you came to the wrong board :thumbsup:

[sophiastarchild]

Dude, I'm never serious It's all cool...

[BigHomie]

g/f and i have lived together about 5 years. she's never smoked. she doesn't really care that i do, but she'd occasionally hold it over my head.

a few months ago my main connect decided to move on with his life and stop selling. i knew it was coming and told g/f that maybe i should do the same. so i quit smoking. that lasted all of about 2 or 3 weeks. when i started back up i didn't tell her.

for the last 4 months she's had no idea that i've been smoking... and we have never gotten along better. i wish i had tried this little experiment sooner

[sophiastarchild]

Big homie...you may be on to something...he knows I smoke, but maybe if I keep it on the down low and just don't ever mention it or let him know I'm doing it, he'll lighten up, and so will I! I'm just a really open person...it's hard for me to keep a secret. I'm the kind of person who gives presents days before the actual holiday and birthday. I told my mother when I lost my virginity as a teen because I just cannot keep a secret. But it's worth a shot! Maybe if I do, I'll be mellow and cool because I'm high, and he'll be proud of me because he's not realizing I'm getting high as often as I actually am. Yes, I'm going to cut back, a little. Because the man has a point in some ways. But I won't quit.

[BigHomie]

i could tell her right now and she wouldn't be mad. i'm not really sneaking around or anything. she works crazy hours and i work from home. i smoke all over house... for some reason she isn't smelling it... i smoke about a pack and a half of ciggs a day too, that might have something to do with her not smelling it. the only thing really different is i'm not talking about it or smoking in front of her. when she's here i'll leave the room to smoke or blaze while i'm walking the dogs.

we used to argue over little stuff all the time. now that i think of it, we haven't had an argument in the last 4 months... even a small one... how scary is that.

last night she was thanking me for helping her with something... then she gives me this weird look and says, "things have been really good lately." i just smiled.

we never fought about me smoking, but it must have been on her mind. otherwise why the change? don't get me wrong... i'm not saying things were bad between us before. i guess we were just ur average couple. but things are great now- better even then when we first met.

good luck to you, whatever you do.