intresting question, just to see how all our minds work, are there lies that can be justified? or is every single lie in the world, no matter what it is, or what it may cause/prevent just plain wrong?

i have to say that there are lies that are justified, see me and my wife were together for 11 months back when i was 15-16 and then the fighting became too much and i 'kicked her out', she moved back to arkansas with her parents and we didn't really end it on good terms, i can't really remember why, i just remember it never looked like we were getting back together. couple years later, a mutal friend told me that she had been wanting to talk to me or get back with me (can't remember which right now i'm too sleepy) i've never been the type to come crawling back, i'm one of the most harded headed, stubborn assholes there is, i wouldnt' have ever wanted her back, until she wanted me back first, and i think this friend knew that, anyways long story short, comes to find out that he was lying all along, but had he not lied, i probably wouldn't be married to the woman i love more than anyone or anything else, and we wouldnt' have a son....