Quote Originally Posted by ganjasaurusrex
My grandmother had a saying.
"If you turn your lover into your psychologist she will love you like a mother and not a lover".
There is alot of wisdom in that. This is a prime example of one of the reasons a woman will not want to have sex with her man anymore and lose interest in him altogether.]
Quote Originally Posted by psychopixi
Your grandmother was definitely right about this one. It's not easy to feel passionate about someone when you spend half your time tending to their problems and cleaning up after them.
see, i feel completely opposite of that...if i cant open up to someone, i dont want to make love to her, she HAS to know where im coming from for me to be attracted to her. i guess i am crazy.

it seems to me like women are always bitching that they cant find a guy that is truthful, open and honest with them...and yet they continue to go after the assholes : ) gotta love it, the rules are set in opposition.