I think a man is someone who can stand on his own and be trusted to do the right thing under any circumstances, even when he thinks no one else is looking. Someone who's responsible, who's a true grownup and who can support himself and do right by his family and friends and relationships. Maybe you have some more growing up to do? A mark of a man isn't necessarily whether or not you have a girlfriend or someone to care about. It's whether you're a grownup and whether you yourself have the ability to care for others. I figure when you've reached that point, the girls will come running!