:clap: You just said what I have thought but couldn't get it quite right on paper..That is a great way of explaining that issue..thats why I also think affirmative action is outdated now..it is saying that others are at a disadvantage because of sex and race..which is not true imo..I see some abuse aa..and I have seen the majority do it the old fashioned way and earned what they accomplished and contributed to society..smart people..and do not like their race and sex being brought in the mix. Great post Fenzgi. Its like when I was in school..we were asked who our hero was..excluding parents..I don't believe one "entertainer" was mentioned..it was normal people that made a difference for the world..my pick was Jonas Salk btw..now its 50 cent,britney etc...not saying they are wrong but what have they really done for the survival of the human race? yep..thinking hard this morning...one more thing..parents need to step up and stop passing the buck imo.