you are not telling me how it is. You are stating your perceptions...I think that's what got to me...I have found that we have to choose our words carefully in such matters.

I understand where you are coming from!

trivium...peace.

There is something way out of wack here...I was trying to get to the core of it...Now; Will I get the next response I need or will it be another step down negativity lane due to your response. Do you see where I'm coming from? If the lady needs to vent...Well then, I think the majority of people around here would like her to get it off her chest.
Karma would prevail...I believe in Karma; Do you?

Life goes on. When someone visits here daily and posts, has a great refreshing attitude amongst the heaps of 'Bullshit' Well...Just like me and you. you and me. All the rest! We all need a place away, a friendly place from the shit sandwich we label: Life

Boy, I remember...the 1st day that Mand posted. the following days the whole personna of this forum changed...People got friendlier. We wouldn't tolerate the obnoxious beligerence that had befallen us in the recent past; At the time a conversation like 'ours' would've turned into a long drawn out BITCHMATCH...I think it was BB and HD that really went at it; to the point of insanity.
over some grow method ideologies...I think.

Anyway, the work of all the longstanding 'growing forum' members to 'weed out' the obnoxius, undesirables, who really just wanted to stir shit with everyone...OK Lip, your on the edge...Just Kidding.LOL
or, wanted to just use the forums for their own little Illegal enterprises...all the scammers...
esrabilimar, or whatever the turks name is. I lived in Turkey for a year once...cool Place,.

Well, you have come into the back end of all this
and Mand was one of the reasons for the changes. We felt we had a Lady present...At least it sure appeared so...I don't know, but I am sure a few folks will "chime" in on this one.

anyway, I hope you realize that I am not trying to bust your chops...I am standing up for a friend. :smokin:

I'll try again. Mand, Tell me what is really bothering you...
latewood