Oh dear

Now Gentlemen, can I ask you all to sit back pour a drink a just read. Not just got through as quick as possible to get to the end but to take you're time and read ..................... I know how it's usually done, I have four older brothers and two sons and not one of them has ever read anything properly, they were just to egaer to get to the end.


Now before you go off on one Del, this is my sons account, he saw what was happening and wanted to wade in, but I stopped them.

You know this reminds me of the days when I used to go to the town centre pubs, on Saturday nights there was always fights and arguments between some of the lads.


Philly, to you what you said was nothing, to me it hurt like you could never imagaine. You and I are from totally different backgrounds, ages, genders, social enviroments. The difference is vast between us, I imagine that you probably come from somewhere were it expected for a young man to act in a certain way ............ to be honest love we are not on the same wave length.
I probably went the wrong way about venting my hurt, if you had apologised then that would have been the end of the matter ........... I do not hold grudges, one thing I have learned is that life is too short for that.



Now Del, just for once read without predjudice .................... To be honest Del you're moderating skills leave a lot to be desired, you have actually made things worse. Yes this is critisim don't get angry take it like a man.
I never threatned you at all, I pointed out that people can be hurt by just words alone. The moment you read something you didn't like you instantly hit the ban button, and yet when I complained of being hurt by words you mocked me with the hankie quote.
Think about it Del it works both ways love.
I am not critising you as a person, I have no reason for that, it is not my style.
I am quite sure that there is a dam good person there, I have read you're Mothers day thread and you use Van Gogh for an avatar, to me they both show sensitivity.
You said you didn't ban by personal motive, think about it Del are you really so sure.
To me a ban doesn't mean a thing, but leaving here with the knowledge I have created all this anomosity between fellow growers does bother me. I never ever wanted that.




So Gentlemen as the author of this thread, can I ask you are you going to keep arguing and causing futher strife with each other. Or are you willing to shake hands put differences aside and do what you all do best ........................... to stick a finger up at the esthablishment and grow something that is quite sacred to us all



love mand xxx



Oh Latewood I have been trying every which way to contact you but I don't know how

Turtle You cannot leave untill I see that "turtle harvest" or else I'll hunt you down and slap you bloody legs


Hey Philly , is this avatar "dudish" enough for you


Bye all ................ Thankyou for taking the time to read