I love Mand, I'd definitely stand up for her no questions asked if anyone was going off on her or flaming her. She doesn't deserve it.

BUT, phillykid doesn't have any previous trolling record (check out his other posts) and not only that, the comment he made may have been a little rude but it wasn't even his! He got his insult from a song that's been dead long since "Ms. Doubtfire".

Not only that, but he's obviously not defending his posts at the moment so he probably brushed it off just as soon as it was sent and posted to the thread.

This is the breakdown as I see it in my head:

*Before this mess took place:
Philly - Emotional Status: Calm
Mand - Emotional Status: Calm/Happy

*Philly reads the thread and sees Mand's avatar for the first time:
Philly - Emotional Status: Controlling/Giddy
Mand - Emotional Status: Calm/Happy

*Philly makes his post and logs:
Philly - Emotional Status: Accomplished
Mand - Emotional Status: Calm/Happy

*Mand goes to read replies as Philly is watching a hilarious movie:
Philly - Emotional Status: Happy (Long forgotten is his post in his mind)
Mand - Emotional Status: Pissed/Upset

*Mand makes a new thread to inform C.com of what has taken place:
Philly - Physical/Emotional Status: Sleeping/Getting high/School/With a friend - Happy
Mand - Emotional Status: Pissed/Upset

Chances of any of this effecting PhillyKid in any way if he's the kind of person I think he is: 0-5%

Endless amounts of energy being wasted on someone who doesn't even have the slightest clue of what's going on: Priceless.

But I mean, for all we really know - this kid is friends with a bunch of girls and they all make fun of eachother on a daily basis. I know this girl I talk to all the time and I make fun of her in every way possible as she does me, you have to look past the hurt and look at the funny reality that is life.

If you have issues or problems with how you look or feel, you have two options.

#1 is change.
#2 is be comfortable with who you are.

It's one of the harshest lessons out there, take this from someone who's gone from 190 pounds to 303 pounds and then back down to 240 then to 280 and now back to 230.